I am so sorry I haven’t been active much at all but let me fill you in, last year in September I got myself a boyfriend. Things seemed great for a while until his roommate told me that he was basically cheating. He wanted me to believe him and made it look as if he was the victim and became very defensive. I should have left then, but I decided to put his trust to the test, and stayed.
It was a long distance relationship. After a while 2 months into the relationship the effort stopped, and I could tell something was off. I became more worried that he was definitely sleeping around. In November is when he broke it off with me. Saying how he knew he shouldn’t have jumped into anything knowing he hates long distance and that he was sorry and that I am a lovely young woman and how he would like to see where this leads once his life is back on track. He also mentioned my parents not really liking him, well if it is true love that doesn’t matter is what my mum said. In the breaking up he said to “don’t go thinking I’ve been sleeping around, because I haven’t….” that got me thinking, who says that when breaking up? That made me think he definitely was, and it broke my heart and destroyed me. He said he still wanted to talk though.
A month after breaking up, I was at the beach with a friend of mine who is a guy and hos foot ended up in the picture of the beach. My ex immediately assumed I had moved on. Friends told me he must have been jealous and tried to play it cool. Last night I went out to the movies with another guy friend and we were the only ones in the cinema so I made a post about it, my ex again assumed he must have been my boyfriend. No one else assumed both guys were my boyfriend in either post, only him.
Looking back on that relationship, I felt used. I cried a fair bit, it wasn’t healthy. A few other guys have liked me but decided I am too far away and have found someone else, it hurts a bit but that’s okay, I need to focus on myself anyway for now.
So that is the complicated lies story of a poor relationship. What are your thoughts? Let me know in the comments below!
Much love, TheLittleCornerDiary x